Written by Ruth Schowalter, Certified InterPlay Leader and InterPlay Art and Soul Creativity Coach
“I felt free,” one of the
teenage refugees said after our InterPlay warmup and “Walk Stop Run” that we
did during our Creative Communication class at the Clarkston Community Center. “The stress is gone,” another
student offered to our group. “It was like play,” still another commented. We
were doing what we do in InterPlay--NOTICING.
NOTICING plays an
important role in InterPlay. Phil Porter and Cynthia Winton-Henry, the
co-founders of InterPlay, explain in their easy-going whimsical manner: “We do
stuff and then notice.”
But why? Why NOTICE the stuff we do? And what role might NOTICING play
in assisting these teenage immigrants to express themselves more authentically
in their new language--English--and new home here in Clarkston, Georgia, nicknamed the Ellis Island of the
South? To answer these questions, I am going to delve into InterPlay training documents and see how I might extract well-written explanations on
NOTICING (thanks Phil and Cynthia) and paraphrase them meaningfully to fit my
particular situation with these teenage refugees. Here goes….
DOING "THE STUFF" BEFORE NOTICING
In InterPlay, we regularly create experiences for participants to have and discover certain “things” for themselves rather than lecture and tell them what we want them to know or feel. So we facilitators don’t announce that the activity, “Walk Stop Run” is going to be fun (It may well not be fun to someone.). Nor do we give people “permission” to do anything other than walk, stop, or run. Instead, we give simple directions in order to get everyone engaged, put on music, and see what happens....
Extraordinarily (or maybe it is just being human), people start lifting their arms, raising their legs, and any other movement they might feel like doing. Some start copying each other and moving together. Groups of three might skip around the room arm and arm. Others may lean together while they are stopped.
In InterPlay, we regularly create experiences for participants to have and discover certain “things” for themselves rather than lecture and tell them what we want them to know or feel. So we facilitators don’t announce that the activity, “Walk Stop Run” is going to be fun (It may well not be fun to someone.). Nor do we give people “permission” to do anything other than walk, stop, or run. Instead, we give simple directions in order to get everyone engaged, put on music, and see what happens....
Extraordinarily (or maybe it is just being human), people start lifting their arms, raising their legs, and any other movement they might feel like doing. Some start copying each other and moving together. Groups of three might skip around the room arm and arm. Others may lean together while they are stopped.
MAGIC happens! And for my
group, this magic happened!
And what does this MAGIC
have to do with NOTICING?
After “Walk Stop Run”
concluded, we gathered to do some NOTICING, which these teenage participants are
still learning how to do. I explain to them that each individual describe
his/her own experiences (not somebody else’s) and “look for the good” although
negative observations will be affirmed as well.
Someone might mention that he/she feels energized while someone else
feels tired.
This proclamation of “tired” happened in the first Creative Communication class last week with other others nodding their heads in agreement. I acknowledged all of the students’ fatigue, knowing that they had been in high school classes all day and it was then 5:00 pm. Many had at least two buses to take to get home before an evening of homework. My affirmations support their body wisdom and could lead in the future to a discussion about what choices they can make to get some needed rest.
This proclamation of “tired” happened in the first Creative Communication class last week with other others nodding their heads in agreement. I acknowledged all of the students’ fatigue, knowing that they had been in high school classes all day and it was then 5:00 pm. Many had at least two buses to take to get home before an evening of homework. My affirmations support their body wisdom and could lead in the future to a discussion about what choices they can make to get some needed rest.
Again, you might ask why? Why NOTICE? Because of the benefits! Let’s explore what some of these benefits of NOTICING might be:
There is something called INTERNAL AUTHORITY
In this case of expanding
or bending the rules in “Walk Stop Run,” the topic of internal authority versus external authority
is elicited. Instead of the facilitator giving permission to “do anything you
want” (external authority) during the
activity, participants learn for themselves (internal authority) that they have
the freedom to play with movement in the company of others. NOTICING helps us explore this concept of internal authority and our experience related to it.
EXPERIENCES ARE LAYERED AND COMPLEX
What we experience in any
one given moment is not simple. NOTICING helps us capture these complex
feelings and ideas and begin the process of articulating them. And the really great concept in InterPlay? You don't have to be able to articulate an experience, "to have it."
HONORING THEIR INNER WISDOM AND
EXPERIENCE
Having participants NOTICE
is a way of getting them to pay attention to the validity of their experiences
and what they know for themselves. As they practice NOTICING, they build up
their confidence in their inner wisdom. NOTICING is an opportunity for everyone
to HONOR themselves. The ability to express these NOTICINGS authentically becomes a possibility.
LEARNING FROM OTHERS
NOTICING in the community
of the InterPlay play group allows everyone to learn from one another and to
discover that people have similar and different experiences of the same exercise. InterPlay
offers the opportunity to respect how individuals learn what they need or want
from a particular activity.
As we continue learning InterPlay forms and tools in this Creative Communication class during this spring semester, I look forward to seeing what we can discover and NOTICE together. What is authentic communication and how can it be played around with?
CONCLUDING CREATIVE COMMUNICATION CLASS WITH A YES! |